Category Archives: Memories

Operation Oysterhood: 8 October

OYSTERHOOD is reclusiveness or solitude, or an overwhelming desire to stay at home.

— @HaggardHawks

I think Salieri missed me yesterday when I was looking after another cat and she spent most of today following me around (she is sleeping next to the keyboard as I type). The photograph above was a bit of an accident when I surprised her while we were reading in bed earlier in the afternoon (I know what a privilege that is – calling reading in bed work!). Her expression says a lot about the bewilderment I feel about this highly productive and satisfying, but also exhausting, day. I know I have just had a holiday, but I need another one already.

I was still awake at one in the morning last night, but not long enough to watch the debate live, so I watched the recording when I woke up after a short sleep. What can I say? The Fly and Fly Twitter stole the show. I had a great laugh before my first coffee of the day. I needed this: laughter. Otherwise, the only thing left is despair.

On a tiny, personal level things are developing in the right direction. It often feels like treading water, but we are nearing the two hundredth day of our local lockdown, worldwide way over a million people died because of the coronavirus, and our economies … well, you know. Most of us feel some kind of pain that is unimaginable to others.

A friend told me today that her phone fell and the screen cracked, but in the larger scheme of things, she just shrugged it off and is ‘reading through a cracked screen’. That phrase could be applied to all of us, to this year. If 2020 wrote a memoir, it could be called READING THROUGH A CRACKED SCREEN.

I have proofread three typeset manuscripts in the last while – all beautiful in ways that not even a cracked screen can deny. It is a survival strategy; to continue, to nurture beautiful things.

Be kind. Wear a mask. Support local.

“Physical distancing remains one of the key strategies to curb this pandemic.”

— NICD

Operation Oysterhood: 7 October

OYSTERHOOD is reclusiveness or solitude, or an overwhelming desire to stay at home.

— @HaggardHawks

One of those never-ending days, but a lot of work has been done. Great meeting in the morning with Stephen Symons to finalise two exciting projects, some work at home afterwards, then some proofreading during a visit to my love’s recovering cat while he was at work. The cat is fragile, but much better. I fed her some chicken and then she slept next to me, occasionally getting up for a short cuddle and returning back to her rest.

Work continued back home before and after dinner (with my love), and I know I should call it a night, but I am going to see how long I can still last and do some admin that does not require too much thinking; perhaps I can even last until the debate (I am really curious about this one and would not mind watching it live). There is a reasonable chance that this one will be an actual debate.

It might be a long night, though.

May sleep, whenever it comes, be restful.

Good night.

Be kind. Wear a mask. Support local.

“Physical distancing remains one of the key strategies to curb this pandemic.”

— NICD

Operation Oysterhood: 6 October

OYSTERHOOD is reclusiveness or solitude, or an overwhelming desire to stay at home.

— @HaggardHawks

The show must go on! It’s time for theatre again as the Baxter reopens its doors – with care (small, physically distanced, audiences) – to theatre lovers. I can’t wait! And when one is gallivanting with an outlaw, a mask is a must, so it should all feel ‘in character’, as they say.

I am going to the theatre! It sounds unbelievable, and yet it is true. That’s the magic of it all.

Today, after some admin and an early manuscript meeting on a beach (almost), I spent the day catsitting one of my love’s cats who had spent a few days at the vet’s and needed some furry love after the ordeal. While she made herself at home again, I continued with my work until it was time for dinner (I cooked fish for her and for my love – not sure who liked it more).

Then home to my own Furry Ones (with fish leftovers, of course!) and a Skype call with Mom and Krystian and some more admin, and now, I am falling over and heading in the direction of Morpheus’s arms.

Good night.

Be kind. Wear a mask. Support local.

“Physical distancing remains one of the key strategies to curb this pandemic.”

— NICD

Operation Oysterhood: 5 October

OYSTERHOOD is reclusiveness or solitude, or an overwhelming desire to stay at home.

— @HaggardHawks

Monday morning: Cats, coffee and Bosch. I am reading the series out of order and loving it.

Then a long day of work that ended with the delivery of an early Bosch novel I have been waiting for and a braai for my love.

I was able to open my side door today, a sure sign of Spring. And walking to my local printer to pick up a manuscript, I saw everything in blooming sunshine and it made me smile. I love these in-between seasons – Spring and Autumn, the latter being my favourite – and today was a brilliant example how lovely they can be.

I promised myself only one sentence about the Uber-psychopath-in-chief: If you have the right to vote in the US, please, please VOTE. Four more years of this madness is unimaginable.

Be kind. Wear a mask. Support local.

“Physical distancing remains one of the key strategies to curb this pandemic.”

— NICD

Operation Oysterhood: 4 October

OYSTERHOOD is reclusiveness or solitude, or an overwhelming desire to stay at home.

— @HaggardHawks

Can you believe it? The South African Literary Journal – New Contrast has been in existence for sixty years! The last issue of this year (December) will celebrate this incredible achievement. It’s a great time to start a subscription.

Together with Drift Wines Estate, the journal is also running a wonderful poetry competition: The National Poetry Prize. A great poem can win you R10 000 (first prize)! You can read up on the entry guidelines and submit your poetry here: Submit to the National Poetry Prize.

New Contrast is about to enter a new era and I am excited to be part of this prestigious literary adventure as it celebrates its 60th birthday. I have been looking at the archival material today and I am still glowing from the experience.

Apart from a late afternoon walk, dinner and some TV watching with my love in the evening, this has been a rather work-heavy Sunday. A lot of literary admin and quite a lot of household work. But I did enjoy some RG tennis (Rafa won) while ironing. I also cleaned the pool – it looked rather green after my absence of two weeks. It was such a lovely day and the water felt so pleasant that I think the swimming season is about to be opened chez moi.

Ahead is a busy week, but busy with really good things.

Sleep first. Dreams. Good night.

Be kind. Wear a mask. Support local.

“Physical distancing remains one of the key strategies to curb this pandemic.”

— NICD

Operation Oysterhood: 3 October

OYSTERHOOD is reclusiveness or solitude, or an overwhelming desire to stay at home.

— @HaggardHawks

I might have had too much wine this afternoon. But the occasion was a celebration of note. We saw our dear friends, Erika and Kobus, for a braai at their place for the first time since the lockdown. And Kobus is the best braai-master we know. I am full of social and foody deliciousness right now. Also, my fridge is full of divine braai leftovers. I am not exactly very sober, but my love was the designated driver for this excursion and I am already (teeth flossed and brushed) safely in my bed.

A plane was taking off on our way back home, and the Mountain was glorious again.

The tangerine news continues to super-spread, but among it all what fascinates me the most is Putin’s take on how to keep safe during a pandemic. He has taken oysterhood to the ultimate level, and I cannot stop thinking that if Putin is that paranoid, then we should really take care. I never thought that I would say this, but when it comes to keeping safe during the pandemic, Putin is an inspiration. (This must be my un-sober pandemic brain talking.)

Good night.

Be kind. Wear a mask. Support local.

“Physical distancing remains one of the key strategies to curb this pandemic.”

— NICD

Operation Oysterhood: 2 October

OYSTERHOOD is reclusiveness or solitude, or an overwhelming desire to stay at home.

— @HaggardHawks

On 11 August, my love gave me a bunch of roses. I do not know how, but two of them are still on my bedside table, looking eternal.

Today was another full day of work, but the working schedule began a bit later than planned because of The News. The Tangerine Troll and the First Trollin have tested positive for the coronavirus. I am all for kindness, forgiveness, empathy and turning the other cheek, but today, like so many other atheists, I have joined the praying masses. And I wasted about two hours on social media and watching the news channels for updates. I know, I am not a good person – I cannot bring myself to wish this psychopath well. He is responsible for so much misinformation, misery and death, it is impossible for me to feel sorry for him.

The good news of today is literary. Sue Nyathi’s third novel is here! A Family Affair. My to-read pile is scary right now, but I can’t wait to get to this one.

Be kind (although I understand that it is not always possible…). Wear a mask. Support local.

“Physical distancing remains one of the key strategies to curb this pandemic.”

— NICD

Operation Oysterhood: 1 October

OYSTERHOOD is reclusiveness or solitude, or an overwhelming desire to stay at home.

— @HaggardHawks

The Cats missed me. I even had all three fall asleep with me on the bed last night and that is highly unusual. They kept following me around all day long today, just to make sure, I suppose, that I wouldn’t get any silly ideas about going away again.

The day was a full return to WORK, with a short Skype lunch break with my Mom and brother, and a dinner with my love. I cooked waterblommetjie bredie for us.

Our borders are opening, but Austria, the only country I am interested in for the time being, is not on the list of allowed visitors.

Professional highlight of the day: pre-order special from The Book Lounge. If you can, please pre-order to support the authors, Karavan Press and our fabulous Book Lounge. It’s a great deal!

Pre-order in October and get 20% off, a signed/personalised copy and free delivery within 20km from The Book Lounge.

Click on the titles below to pre-order directly from The Book Lounge website or email them for an invoice: booklounge@gmail.com.

LET IT FALL WHERE IT WILL by LESTER WALBRUGH: R224

DEATH AND THE AFTER PARTIES by JOANNE HICHENS: R256

One hundred and ninety days of lockdown. Be kind. Wear a mask. Support local.

“Physical distancing remains one of the key strategies to curb this pandemic.”

— NICD

Operation Oysterhood: 28 -30 September

A little bit of lagoon luxury: Mosaic Lagoon Lodge. Our last two nights of holiday were spent just outside of Stanford on the beautiful lagoon, teeming with bird and plant life, spectacular views and rainbows.

Despite occasional rain showers, we managed to walk in the area and simply relax before our return home late this morning. Yesterday, we met with my love’s family for a hearty lunch at Stanford Hills. It was good to see them and to know that they are well. And I really liked my burger and the local rosé.

It was soul-soothing to have all this time with my love and together to enjoy the beauty and bounty that our Western Cape has to offer its residents and visitors.

While we were on the road, I spoke a few times with my Mom on the phone and every time I asked her how she was, she said ‘all well here’ and changed the topic, so I knew something was not entirely ‘all well’, but she would not tell me what was happening. I felt however that because of other comments she made that she was more and more worried about the pandemic and urged us stronger than ever to be careful. I spoke to her this afternoon after my return home: she had to self-isolate all the time we were away after her neighbour tested positive for the virus! Mom tested negative, but was advised to self-isolate for a few days after the test results as a precaution. She is completely fine now, thank goodness, but I did tell her that she MUST NOT keep these things from us (my brother was also on holiday during this time and she did not want to worry us). Mothers! You’ve got to love them, even when they are naughty like this.

Home. Cats. Work (not that it stopped completely on holiday, but I did get away with some truly lazy days).

Good night.

Operation Oysterhood: 25 – 28 September

We were welcomed in Wilderness by the gorgeous Knysna Turaco (a close relative of mousebirds!), flashing its reds and greens over our heads the moment we got out of the car. A good omen for the part of the trip solely dedicated to nature – physical distancing made easy. And what better place for such adventures than a comfy, secluded, en-suite tent in the Reflections Eco-Reserve where you can to experience the salt-water lakes and the forests of the Garden Route near Wilderness. Admittedly, the nights were windy and cold, our breaths “like signatures before us” (Gordimer) in the early mornings, but nothing that braais, red wine, hot water bottles and coffee couldn’t handle.

And we woke up to this view:

Tim and Angelique Carr, our Reflections hosts, are passionate about conservation and everything in the Reserve is organised around regeneration, preservation and the privilege of taking care of a beautiful piece of land and the waterscape around Rondevlei. Sunday morning, we got up early for a birding trip with Tim that was mind-blowing. He is the perfect guide, adjusting to the levels of expertise of his audience members to guarantee that everyone gets the most out of the experience. We did not only see stunning birds, we were able to spend time in their company, in one case being able to almost stroke a bird’s fluffy egg-yolk chest feathers when a fearless Chorister Robin-Chat allowed us to have a long, close look.

Other avian highlights included the Denham’s Bustard, African Paradise Flycatcher, Narina Trogon, Grey Cuckooshrike, White-starred Robin, Pin-tailed Whydah, Yellow-throated Petronia (out of range), Recapped Lark, Olive Woodpecker, Amethyst Sunbird and my absolute favourite: the outrageously wonderful African Swamphen.

Photo by Wally Harris.

Just look at this marvellous bird! Love at first sight.

We walked a lot and spent the evenings in front of big, friendly fires, braaing and drinking pink bubbly at sunset. Even a simple lunch of cheese and cold meats can turn into a feast when it is enjoyed with a spectacular view. And when you are in an elevated luxury tent you are surrounded by spectacular views. To top it all, we still had cheesecake for dessert.

Nearly two years ago, when we visited the Goukamma Nature Reserve for a few days and discovered the Wild Oats Farmers’ Market in Sedgefield, I had the most delicious, fresh oysters there. They were selling at R10 (small) and R15 (big) each and tasted like sea heaven. Just a dash of tabasco sauce and a sprinkle of fresh lemon juice. At this price, I had ‘many’. This Saturday, even though we were at the market early, I could not resist. The same oyster stall was still there, the prices haven’t changed and the quality of the oysters was even better than I’d remembered. I so wish I could do this every Saturday (but perhaps not for breakfast – rather make that a brunch wish) …

Food is one of the simplest pleasures.

Oysterhood in all kinds of senses of the word.

Last stop on our intra-provincial tour (organised at a time when inter-provincial travel was not allowed): Stanford.